People question themselves out of the blue asking whether life's worth living for and whether they have live life to the fullest?
Life is fragile. Our soul can leave us anytime when we immerse ourselves into dreamland and never return to our mortal soul.
They say, life flutters around the birth and death of a creature.
There are many views to life that I don't know where to begin. Some might feel that why bother thinking of what's left and enjoy what you have. Some people search fruitlessly to the ends of the mountain of Himalaya to find end up at some monastery to be a monk and seek solace in ultimate nirvana.
In seriousness, the majority of us have so much stuff on our mind that we don't have time to reflect, much less care why we are on this planet?
I think we all justify our existence through our career, family and the status that we are in. Success on the corporate ladder or having financial freed will feed one's ego while a happy family will fulfill the emotional needs.
Love = life?
Love has just been a downward spiral in the past of what has happened. Yes, I've liked some people and yes, I'm confused should I ever need to be in love- but in fact, I'm in love. Okay, through relationships that have been torn and broken, you learn lessons like what you want out of a lover or you become more understanding how much you can truly commit yourself to a romance that might eventually lead you down the carpet or the stairway to heart aching pain.
Whatever it is, life is all about justification.
We rationalize and validate ourselves by comparing ourselves with the rest. We try to reach the benchmark of supporting a family, having babies and doing whatever that pleases us. We defined ourselves through others and it builds up what you call today, social norms.
Whatever the motivation your life is all about, our human instincts wants us to succeed or just sit back, slack and enjoy what the world has to offer for us.
But one thing is for sure, we are reliant on each other to find meanings in our existence.
She's Jess Friday, September 23, 2005
6:08 PM 6 pour out(s)
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.: [her- self] :.
.: [her bits] :. I amJesslyn.
have been living
in kuala Lumpur since the 6th of february in some years ago.
still growing up and
struggling with life.
embracing my very own life
now, so mess not with me, interfere not with me. overall, i am
just nothing to be precise.
oh, I loveiandearly.
just one thing you got to remember always.
by the way, this
is what others think of me. and what's your verdict?