I think it is time for me to figure out something with my love life.
I can ascertain some things though. Some things are just not meant to be forced, if there is no chemistry from someone I met in real life, through friends, in a party, online, chat online, or happen to accidentally bump online. If it is not meant to be, it is not meant to be. At least I know that I have made a valiant effort to try to connect with people if all things fail to evolve.
To answer my question of what I want in a date, is for someone to be Himself. The whole package of a personality that has the potential to progress to a persevering partnership. By reflecting their true personality, at least we are truthful to ourselves and if no chemistry bubbles, then leave it, don't force an equation that will end up in disaster. Is that asking too much for someone to be themselves?
If you're really an ugly person inside, the jerk- ish type, the clingy type, the virgin type, gamer type, then let it show. I have my own personal preference of course but then again, I view situation from an overall perspective and accept a person for who he is, as it turns out, I might like your aggressive jerk- ish tendencies. Who knows? but when i can accept the bad side of yours (in my view), be alert to know that, there is a limit that i can accept.
I just do have one slight preference though. It might sound demanding but at least I know what I want from someone.
I wish that he would be able to conduct intellectual chat with me. Yup, not those conversations that discusses the politics of Malaysia or alternate life in the solar systems but conversations that make sense. Chemistry is more important of course.
and if conflicts happen, blame on not me and i will not blame on you. be wise. always remember that relationship involves two party. and when things happen in a way that doesn't please the both of us, don't point and blame. think why does it happen and figure it out to solve it by mean what you said and just pray hard that no repeatance of the same thing.
Am I picky? Maybe. But it is my life after all, and I need to know and choose who I want to spent of my next 50 years with. So do you too! If you can't click with my personality or cannot see eye to eye, then I wish you best wishes on finding your life partner. After all, your life is the only thing that you are in control of life.
She's Jess Friday, April 08, 2005
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.: [her- self] :.
.: [her bits] :. I amJesslyn.
have been living
in kuala Lumpur since the 6th of february in some years ago.
still growing up and
struggling with life.
embracing my very own life
now, so mess not with me, interfere not with me. overall, i am
just nothing to be precise.
oh, I loveiandearly.
just one thing you got to remember always.
by the way, this
is what others think of me. and what's your verdict?
